Love

Have-Do-Be vs. Be-Do-Have

Posted by on Nov 13, 2011 in Dating, Love, Marriage, Relationships | Comments Off

Have-Do-Be vs. Be-Do-Have

Imagine you are at home cooking dinner and anticipating a wonderful evening ahead with your lover. He / she comes home with a frown on his / her face, and without a word walks to the fridge, rolls his / her eyes and bursts out: Where’s my beer / yogurt?! I specifically asked you to buy some! You never do what I ask! Why are we together, anyway?! How you respond is going to be based on which operating mode you are in. Have-Do-Be – Excuse me!? I’m not your slave! – You said you’d buy it and it is not here! – Can’t you see that I’ve been busy and have been cooking for the last hour so we can have a decent dinner together? Now...

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The Need for Love

Posted by on Nov 9, 2011 in Children, Dating, Divorce, Family, Learning Disabilities, Love, Marriage, Men, Parenting, Passion, Relationships, Self Love, Time Management, Women | Comments Off

The Need for Love

The Need of Love in difficult situations. How does this work? Love should never have to be a choice. But when it comes to difficult situations like the choice between you, your husband or your children what happens then? Well they cannot take care of themselves, they are apart of you and it’s your job to look after them, you have a duty of care of them because they are not adults, you are the one to make empowered decisions and choices on their behalf. What happens when they grow up? How would that leave your relationship with partner? It is true that your relationship with your children is totally different to the relationship that you have with your partner. That is...

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Are You A Bouncing Ball? … Checking In On You!

Posted by on Sep 28, 2011 in All Categories, Anxiety, Children, Coaching, Family, Friendship, Goal Setting, Habits, Health, Life Purpose, Life Stages, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Mindset, Parenting, Passionate Living, Personal Development, Relationships, Relaxation, Self Esteem, Spirituality, Strategic Intervention, Wellness | Comments Off

I have had several people recently tell me in their own unique ways that they felt something like a bouncing ball in life. Trying to juggle work, school, health and family responsibilities can be overwhelming, leaving someone to feel out of balance, disconnected and unfocused. Many of us can get caught up in busy and active lives. We start treading water and just surviving rather than making purposeful choices and actions with ourselves and others. This can be slippery slope in any relationship. I think it’s important to take a quick assessment every few months – check in on your priorities and values and what’s important to you right now. Have you...

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The Trust Account

Posted by on Jul 12, 2011 in Divorce, Love, Marriage, Men, Passion, Passionate Living, Relationships, Spirituality, Women | Comments Off

The Trust Account

In many relationships there is an accounting – what you do for me vs what I do for you. Whenever there is a surplus on one side, there is often a deficit on the other. The play of relationship will then be to get these sides into equilibrium. Along the way, there may be unhappiness, arguments, stone-walling, or even worse, a state of complete indifference. How did we get to this? In every relationship there is also a Trust Account. At the beginning of most passionate relationships the Trust Account will be full. But over time – sometimes a short time and sometimes a very long time – this account will become eroded and the sign of this erosion will hit...

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Be Yourself… REALLY Be Yourself

Posted by on Jun 29, 2011 in Anxiety, Attraction, Creativity, Dating, Emotional Mastery, Freedom, Friendship, Habits, Health, Life Purpose, Lifestyle, Love, Marriage, Men, Passion, Relaxation, Self Esteem, Self Love, Wellness, Women | Comments Off

Be Yourself… REALLY Be Yourself

You know, it’s pretty hard to live with passion when you’re just not be being true to yourself. If we feel compelled to act or behave or be what we believe others expect of us or would like from us, then we aren’t being true to ourselves and chances are we aren’t all that happy, either. We are stifling our own energy, creativity, spontaneity, contribution, and love among other qualities that as a whole are special or unique to ourselves. If we have to become someone else just to fit in or get along, then haven’t we sacrificed the very essence of our own identity? Anyone can really fit in if they really want to. But how many people really...

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Sensuality Secrets

Posted by on Jun 11, 2011 in Attraction, Coaching, Dating, Emotional Mastery, Love, Marriage, Men, Mind Power, Mindset, NLP, Passion, Passionate Living, Personal Development, Relationships, Self Esteem, Self Love, Strategic Intervention, Uncategorized, Women | Comments Off

Sensuality Secrets

Dear friend, Some people just don’t get it! They inhale beauty products like their life depends upon it. Or they indulge in shopping sprees that max out their credit cards just to see themselves the proud owner of the latest fashion gig or some technical fetish that’s suppose to pamper their soul and make them more attractive. But does it really? How truly fulfilled are they by consuming “hardware”? Does it fill them up? Well, supposedly they’d swallow enough pills – eventually, yeah! How about those gadgets that look nice and there’s a lot they can do with them? How long will it last? Perhaps until the next time the waitress...

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